Sadness

I am saddened today. My good friend lost her father. It is not just that she lost him, but it seems that life is just so awful lately. Another friend is battling medical issues. Not for my specific family, but everyone around me is suffering. I want to help, but don't know how. I don't want to say something to offend them or hurt them. I also know getting advice or words of wisdom right now is not helpful. That's all I am just sad!